How can I make my husband feel loved?

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“Want to learn how to make your husband feel loved, but you don’t know where to start? 

In this blog post, I’m sharing the 6 non-typical ways to make your husband feel loved.

Now, when it comes to making your husband feel loved there’s more to it than just cooking him his favorite meal, complimenting him when he looks nice and/or giving him sex. (Although that usually works too) *wink

Which is why in today’s video, I’m going to share with you the 6 ways to make your husband feel so loved by you that he may get suspicious or even start cleaning up after himself.

The fact that you clicked on this video, means you are:

  1. A great wife
  2. A wonderful person
  3. And a kind soul…

Because anyone who is looking for ways to pour love into another person, especially their spouse, deserves an acknowledgement.

Try asking your best friend her opinion on how to make a man feel loved, she may give you these boring typical answers…. [annoying whiny voice]….

  • Cook him his favorite dinner…
  • Make out with him…
  • Just have sex with him, THAT’S ALL MEN NEED ANYWAY….

The steps I’m about to share with you require INTENTION.

Because SETTING YOURSELF APART is what makes him:

  1. Keep his focus on you
  2. Ward off any thirsty cling-ons (and they are out there)
  3. Want to do things for you in return…(cool right?)

Stick around to the end of the video for a BONUS TIP that I use almost daily that works wonders for increasing your connection to your husband.


  1. Ask him for his opinion on something you are working on or thinking over.

It makes him feel like he matters. 

He feels heard and respected for his contributions.

Men feel like the hero if they can help fix your problems.

This isn’t a problem to you but to him it’s something he can fix.

Men want to fix it. Even if it isn’t broken!


  1. Participate and support his passion. Whether it’s sports or an activity. 

When you care about what he cares about

He thinks…


May I share a quick story with you?

“My husband of almost 7 years follows sports.

Even though when we first met he told me he didn’t care too much about sports.

3. Believe in him. 

When you believe in him it makes him want to conquer the world. 

Remember, he is wired to WIN.

All men want is to win and when he wins, it makes him feel like the hero.

Even little boys tie a sheet around their necks and run around pretending to be super heroes.

Your man wants to be your HERO.

Little side note: 

When you tear him down and criticize him it breaks down his connection to you.

When he disconnects with you..

All sorts of things can happen.

→ next tip…

Before we continue with the next tips, I have a serious question for you:

On a scale of 1 – 10, 

0 being (when there’s a cold day in hell, I’ll do this with my husband) and 10 being (I’ll shout my commitment to this from the Peak of Mt. Everest) HOW LIKELY ARE YOU TO DO THESE TIPS?


Owning your SHIP is the first step to growing your romance with your spouse.

Okay, let’s get back to the next 3 steps.

Step 4:

Bring variety to the bedroom

Be his temptress. 

Sexual satisfaction to him equals love. 

There is peace in the release. 

When you bring him to a place of peaceful satisfaction…

He feels like the king of the world. 

If only temporarily…..he feels more loved by you which will make him feel loved.

Okay, let’s move on to Tip #5… 

5. Leave him be

When he needs alone time..Let him go into his cave. 

And don’t make him wrong. Men need testosterone building ME time.

Now, I know you need me time also, but for now we are focusing on making him feel loved. 

Let me know in the comments section below if you want me to make a follow-up video to this one on WHAT HE CAN DO TO MAKE YOU FEEL MORE LOVED?

Here’s the bonus tip I promised you….

TIP #6 – Take an interest in his work 

Genuinely ask him about his job.

Maybe 1 or 2 simple questions about his work…And then Zip it and listen.

And if you choose to respond to him: Give him a word of encouragement and cheer him on. If you aren’t sure how to do this, Rewind this video and Repeat step #3.

That’s it. I know that’s a lot and I know you can handle it.

Remember, your spouse wants to feel connected to you and loved by you. 

It’s that simple.

I hope you enjoyed reading (and watching above) “HOW CAN I MAKE MY HUSBAND FEEL LOVED?”.

💭Bonus Tips to help supercharge your marriage💭

✨ Connect with your husband daily (even if you are busy)
✨ Ask him about his day (even if you aren’t interested haha)
✨ Look him in the eyes when you ask (it raises testosterone)
✨ Reach out and touch him (his hand, leg, shoulder or back)

Do these things daily and see a shift in his happiness level!

Looking forward to getting to know you more in the comments section below.

See you soon!

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